@Eve When we came back to qabbalah this time, the Rider-Waite was de rigueur with the Guardians of Grace, but that was many years ago in this meatbag. Since then, we feel that decks which reference The Hanging Man, rather than The Hanged Man, generally have a more cohesive set of imagery across all the arcana.
Those that reference hanged rather than hanging tend to miss the entire point of the somersault across the abyss of the eleventh sephira and consequently the necessary link to the dark sea of awareness and the need to avoid the paths of the ten qlippoth like a plague. Unless, of course, you prefer chaos to creation.
@sophieactual I hadn't thought about the question of agency, or perhaps presence (if I'm understanding/intuiting well), with respect to this card, but the distinction is important, I agree very much. I'm now wondering which decks have the property you mention. Do you have any in particular?
My knowledge of qabalah in general is restricted to what I've been able to glean from the margins and so is very very partial and unsystematic, but what you say here makes me want to dig deeper very much.