because of anti-D adjustment issues, i've missed at least two instalments of monthly queer (ok, LGBTQ) book club hosted by the public library. i went tonight, and there were new faces

for the most part, it was really good. there was an awesome Black lesbian woman in her late fifties with great historic hindsight on stuff happening in this city back in the ’70s and ’80s

but a cis white butch a few years younger than me came in just after i did & sat next to me. and for nearly the entire night, the tension between us was palpable. i could almost feel her bristle the couple of times i brought up radterfs in the discussion

also, she stated early on how she disliked labels (as do so many queer folk, myself included). the way she argued it, though, suggested she disliked being *described* in any capacity

she gave me a couple of dagger-eyed looks, however fleeting, when i'd be looking at her and saying 'cis' generally in the context of our discussion. she never framed anything she said in the context of intersectionality. then when she learnt that next month's book is April Daniels' Dreadnought, and asked me what it was about, she seemed to lose interest promptly and didn't join us at the circ desk to pick up her copy

it's like some things never change