Say I wanted to ask out a girl who may or may not be gay. That's something I should ask before, right??? Do I send her a text being like "yo are you a homosexual?"
@Concerned_Catgirl Well I know she isn't that, cause that's me!
also possibly simon hanselmann
@moonlit well not necessarily. Like if I just asked her out for a cup of coffee then it's not clear that I'm possibly interested in something romantic. But I don't know how to ask in a way that it's clear and not awkward.
I'm overthinking this. I'm just gonna ask her.
Well, I've done it. Oh LAdy Ive done it
@oneirofaerie good luck!!
radio silence...
@oneirofaerie Maybe "Would you like to go have coffee... as a date?"
Could work to avoid this weird is-this-a-date-or-not situations.
I feel you, I've been there so much. Good luck!
@NerdResa thank you
@oneirofaerie isn’t asking her out it’s own way of asking if she’s bi/pan/gay/into you/etc anyway though??