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@pain but email servers don't leak my emails to people i didn't send my emails to, lol

@u2764 @pain yes they do! Every server your email goes through keeps a copy for a little while, while they figure out a route for it. Probably longer. consumer.findlaw.com/online-sc

@LogicalDash @u2764 @pain thats actually a different issue. targeted attacks are rather hard with email, but broad attacks are what get you hit -- current mastodon is the opposite issue (along with twitter, to a lesser extent (only because vastly more volume so less singling out other than keyword search))

targeted attacks are easy here, and the broad attacks are somewhat easy. but the average user cant go snoop your email, they have to spin up a masto instance for that at best

@pain @u2764 @LogicalDash which is to say, an email server getting hit runs the chance of your emails getting hit/leaked, but requires a modicum of skill and modivation when its not directly at a person, and more if it is targeted

@LogicalDash @u2764 @pain like i get that people think email is insecure and rightly so, but you're looking at the wrong sort of privacy -- data privacy vs what i can only describe as conversation privacy

@nire is there an issue with direct messages that I didn't hear about? I've only heard complaints about followers-only being leaky, and followers-only posts are not exactly part of a conversation, more like posting to a mailing list...and those are leaky in similar ways, yeah?

@LogicalDash followers only should be essentially what it was before, just with federation to servers that honor it. send to followers, no ability to boost

@LogicalDash right now, since they refuse to enforce the 'only federates to instances that support it' bit, its nigh worthless, especially with how theres literally nothing indicating something is a mastodon instance without you signing up, if i wanted to spool up a fake page + instance i could, so that i could follow you and you wouldnt know unless you *gave me your email*

@LogicalDash because i gaurantee you mastodon.x.y is open for so many domains, and that splashpage isnt the hardest to copy

@LogicalDash the current privacy stuff is quite frankly a slap in the face to anyone who has been voicing these concerns for the past six months. People have started saying the hostility has died down, but that is only because *we have silenced more than half of those instances*

@nire I guess you mean we need a whitelist for the followers only bit

@LogicalDash no! its simpler than that.

theres talk of a version number of a sort that lets you tell not-masto things from masto, and you can just like, impliment that for certain queries. it increases overhead, sure, but its not hard to be like 'yo respond to everything w/ x silently with .3.1, or something

and then just, only give things to those, or things that support $feature, when you know the other people refuse to even care

@nire how would that solve the case of single user domains spun up for eavesdropping purposes?

@LogicalDash it doesnt. it solves the problem of single user domains that dont support it being spun up just to boost anything marked private

@nire if you've already modified the software to boost things marked private, modifying it to lie about what it supports isn't much marginal effort

@LogicalDash except its way more activation energy and need than 'oh, heres a gnu social docker'

@nire this makes it seem like the backward-incompatible option would help privacy for like a week until someone dockerizes a malicious masto setup

@LogicalDash but by the time they do, it doesnt matter, because then private posts still will be respected by the vast majority of things, and its easier to get people to block single person malicious mastodons than gnusocial instances with many loud malicious users, somehow

@LogicalDash like, its literally a 'right now, anyone can do it, and even the tiny bit of effort needed acts as a pretty good filter to reduce the threat of the rest'

@nire @LogicalDash it would also mitigate the situation of shitty asshats being able to just create accounts on otherwise non-malicious servers for abusive purposes, or having them already and being tolerated there bc they're friends with the admins or "free speech" or w/e

@theoutrider @LogicalDash right, they cant just join a masto thing to boost things or whatever at that point.

like, ok i am not really slept so i will try to stretch a metaphor that works

@LogicalDash @theoutrider imagine a lock.

the lock is actuated with electromagnets

when the power fails, do you want the lock to be open, or closed?

the first one is the problem we have right now

the latter is fail-safe, as in, if it *doesnt work*, it does what its designed to do, except arguably better for the security purposes you intend

@theoutrider @LogicalDash its *less convenient* for those who dont support it, but its not *completely undoing its purpose*

@LogicalDash @theoutrider like so much of this would be flat out irrelivant were we to have ways of personally controlling where our shit goes, like personal federation etc

Trust: hard won, easily lost @nire

@theoutrider @LogicalDash and honestly this is maybe the way to go? masto instances themselves acting as a sort of post office, with individual users addressing things under the hood, except its a blacklist not a whitelist -- 'dont go here, here or here, but wherever else, whatever'

@LogicalDash @theoutrider that also helps it make local-timeline-only posts a thing

@theoutrider @LogicalDash but the reason you want blacklist and not whitelist is, at this point, for CPU load i'd think more than anything :P