It's weird that now that I'm in the city and actually meeting other trans femmes in person, I honestly don't feel there's automatically some connection. It's not that they're unlikable or mean, but more that I realize I don't have a lot in common with their experiences, even along being trans. So that's creating doubt, especially what with the whole "You're probably best off dating other trans women" advice I get a lot.
confusion at actually meeting other trans women for the first time Afficher plus
@alyx I hate to say it, the ones I've met remind me of gals from my high school anime club. As in, they like cool things, and clearly have a sense of humor, but in a way I find more exhausting than infectious.
They probably saw me as morbid and pretentious. Which is fair.