@Josephine it's ok I just been asleep and didn't see the post. I just hope those like me who were told by those sites we weren't trans but still managed to do it anyway​ have done enough to make it easier for you now days.

@geekylou you have made it easier, and I am forever grateful for that, in the better late than never kind of way. It's still hard through, I wish I was secure enough in my identity to transition in 1999 when I was reading things like that. All that time lost, it's probably the one thing that makes me cry and hate myself more than anything else.