When I said "see", I meant "think". Why can't I think of someone as this or that, why can't I make the difference so I act and treat differently based on they gender identities. Hum... Don't know if it's clear now either...
@Luuhann Hi! I'm about to head to bed, but I'd like to speak my thoughts while skimming your hexes:
A) Could you please reply to your own messages, if it's part of one long thought? It helps all of us see the entire conversation when we seek to join in.
B) What are your labels? In other words, how do you describe yourself? Some of the things you've said I would expect to hear from pansexual, panromantics, asexuals, aromantics, sapiosexuals, or sapioromantics. Specifically, those identifiers tend to say their intimacies are universally similar (open to all/any or none/rarely) or depends upon minds, not genders & sex
3. You heard of intersectional feminism?