I want to come out to everyone so much.

I've been waiting for the right time, when people could see already, when I knew everything. But the face I used to have is gone. That skin is shed already and those who look already see.

This lie has started to hurt a lot. Does this mean it's time?

Today I'm really happy my witches 💜 but I hurt a lot too

@Eve It does sound like it's about time for you to come out. Circumstances holding you back?

@Dimduning a little yes. It's something I can overcome for sure. Probably it's mostly a matter of changing this internal policy I've had for so long. But it's time to move things forward I guess. The social needs to start to match the physical and mental...

@Eve @Dimduning it's hard, but I think you're ready to plan, if not also do it. I personally wrote a generic coming out letter, and mostly just used it as an exercise for coming out to everyone orally.

And understand coming out is never a one and done thing. There's multiple people, misunderstandings, and so on. I still come out as a full time trans woman who doesn't always pass. Because I need to make it explicit knowledge I'm trans rather than implicit sometimes.

@ikea_femme @Dimduning thank you for this.

I think I will start on an individual basis first, this seems like a reasonable strategy and also I'm doing it anyway... the idea of writing a letter is a really good one I think too.