@Concerned_Catgirl But first you'd need to know whether you're coming or going...

...in which case you'd be a step ahead of me, because I'm never sure of that.

(And since you're a step ahead of me, that implies we're heading in the same direction -- so if you figure out whether you're coming or going, then you can tell me and then I'll know which one I'm doing. Hurrah! One problem solved. Baby steps... in one direction or another...)