I guess this is weird but like I view every romantic/sexual relationship I get in as queer even if it's with some cis het dude. Because I'm trans and bi and queer as fuck and thus the relationship is queer just by association of me being half of it.
@BadWrongFun i kinda think once you reach a certain level, there's no going back, and even if you're dating a normie dude your perception and actions will influence him too
@BadWrongFun Makes sense to me.