@paulfree14 @jd it has been called to my attention that @rechelon 's essay You Are Not the Target Audience addresses this subject excellently, and says pretty much exactly what I want to say - https://humaniterations.net/2012/02/29/you-are-not-the-target-audience/
I'll just add that clarifying the distinction between violence against people and destruction of property should be a top rhetorical priority.