I'm not even in a monogamous relationship -- we're a triad -- but I find myself in this weird position where I want to make friends with other creatives online and simultaneously am terrified of it because that's exactly how I watched at least two new relationships start online.
"But why are you afraid?"
In one case, it meant the death of an existing relationship as two collaborators fell for each other, dhsnnggs
absolutely unfounded fears about developing crushes, insecurity Afficher plus
@swordjaw "Why is the possibility of one or several of your relationships crumbling such a fear? Do you really worry about their state that much?"
Yes. Of course I do. That relationship I watched crumble online -- they were engaged. Nothing's a guarantee, ever, I know, but.
These two people I love -- they are two of the most important people in my life. I get teary just thinking about the bad possibilities.