the ground here still feels like a raw wound, has the smell of the trauma site and so i don't know that i ever can come back really and the approach to privacy here still bothers me hugely but i'll be hovering around
@spinach yeah, I don't think I can ever feel 100% okay about this place. not sure if you heard but the privacy stuff changed a little bit at least. 2.0 and up uses activitypub which a least understands private messages and private messages aren't sent to ostatus any more. still a lot more to go though
@erinolivia good to hear DMs are more real, at least
@spinach yeah why anyone thought the original setup was anything but a catastrophe I'll never understand
@erinolivia gagron's initial desire to do everything in pure ostatus and general nonreception of criticism
@spinach yuppp