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inspired by fanfic kink tags, compare & contrast w/my kinks Afficher plus
playing with negative emotions; cw knife, pain, fear Afficher plus
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@sev yes, absolutely. On the other hand, if you can find that trust, it gives a way of engaging with the underlying problem in a way that can make it more approachable. Getting into that headspace is something I've only managed once or twice.
playing with negative emotions; cw humiliation Afficher plus
Another facet of my humiliation kink is less fun & lighthearted. It's a response to a perceived negative judgment from my lover - to disappointment, or disgust, or similar. I don't just blush, but feel a squirm of shame, an urge toward debasement, lessening of worth.
To play with that, part of me, for a moment, has to believe it. Or the emotional blow doesn't land.
That feels scary & requires absolute trust before & after that they don't mean it.