@Nire I like the idea of being thoughtful about that setting & choosing carefully when/whether to broadcast.

On a practical level, I've been seeing unlisted posts not always propogating reliably -- sometimes fine, sometimes hours late, and sometimes not at all (and this differs from one instance to another -- I see yours just fine, but other people I follow, not as much. I don't have a sense yet as to whether my posts are showing up reliably on other instances...I should test that s'more, I guess, rather than just defaulting to public like I've been).

This is me, trying to resist the urge to set up a server so I can try to debug this...