One of my sweeties has been asking, every couple of months: "So, you said, maybe you'd figure out What You're Doing Next once you got the server all the way shut down. Have any thoughts about that?" He asks just rarely enough that it's not pestering. But often enough to keep the question on my radar.

Like, theoretically, I've got some bandwidth, now, that I should be able spend on other things. That project took a lot of energy. My kid was born two weeks after her due date; I spent those weeks upgrading the mailserver.