i've worked out the weird muscle pain in my back comes from falling asleep while trying to get off & having the cord of my vibrator trapped under my shoulder. this begs certain questions, what's happening with the vibe? it must auto shut off after some time. i don't think i'm turning it off in my sleep? i worry about waking up my roomies :/

ps if you have a penis & don't have a magic wand type vibe, get one, esp if you are ambivalent about yr penis. the orgasms are better & less... gendered?