It's been ages since I had an actual *party* on my birthday. Now that I'm neither drinking alcohol nor eating cheese my old traditional "port, cheese, and chocolate" party doesn't suit me anymore and it's been several years and I still haven't found a replacement that makes me happy.

Aynjel's lobbying for a Mocktail Party. They're right; I should just do that and stop worrying about whether ppl will think it's silly.