@InspectorCaracal That's very true! It's part of what drove me away from Tumblr, tbh. Hard to get my dashboard back to acceptable limits of neo-puritanism.

No, it sounds sound enough (ah, it sounds sound!) I'm just... having this layer of "omg I'm going to hurt people I am a BAD person" on top of, err, more rational concerns about my privileges and my assumptions and how to best keep everything in check. So whenever there is but the smallest incertitude whether I am on the Right Side Of the Discourse(tm) I usually shut up. I mean. POC and oppressed people know better than me anyway, you know? Even when I disagree.