@alice It’s funny, I make more money now but I remember one year where I was living on very little and then I got $5000 in November. And I bought everyone something for Christmas and gave to so many charities. Sometimes, now that I am financially stable, I still need to reach back and grab that girl’s heart. Ok, that sounds darker than I meant. Sadly, nobody else had expectations, but the charity thing bit me. They thought I had real money.