Right now it looks like the most feasible thing is for me and my husband to live separately for a year. We would not be the first couple to have to do this because of work stuff. We've evaluated what we want long term and since it would just be a year.... I still want to stay home from work and just cry today.
@gzt I don't feel...worried about our marriage?...but I feel worried about our happiness. However "you can do anything for a year"