@Morgane quite so!

i completed genital surgery, like, 13yrs ago, so i've been w/o T all these years (and without a need any longer for cyproterone/spironolactone)

maybe five years ago, there was someone i was dating who made me feel pleasantly erotic and in touch with my body, but she was still dysphoric with her own body and wasn't in a place where being more intimate was possible. anyway, yeah. bodies are weird, but we have a much better sense of how endocrinology works than the average cis person!