on birbsite i'm feeling a bit astringent abt some dfab "i'm not cis & i'm not trans i'm gnc but i still called you a word one thinks of when one refers to dangly bits". they (pronoun not specified in their profile) said how cis dude songwriters in the ’80s were very hard to find who weren't writing misogynist/racist crap & they got huffy when i showed otherwise

so now i'm listening to the style council cos the style council were great… esp on confessions of a pop group. so i'm hoping paul weller, mark talbot & dee c lee will leave me from this exchange feeling much more sweet & fresh & a lot less like tea tree oil mixed w/ witch hazel, if you get my meaning