and meanwhile, over on birbsite, i post a thread on public spacing and public realms because that's what i care about and was trained to do…

but as always, it'll go largely ignored by the people who most need to see and think about it, reinforcing my old belief that i'm really shitty and worthless at the thing i should be able to find work in but can't because no trans women at all work in that mostly cis white dude field :sigh: