@cassolotl I think this isn't just about straight-as-default, it's also about queer-as-sexualised. I was talking to my straight friend recently about her trying to explain the pride flag to her 7-year-old (who says she wants to marry her female friend when she grows up). It sounds like my friend handled the conversation really well, but she did express having had some difficulty in using age-appropriate language to explain queerness (which is not her fault, it's SOCIETY'S FAULT, imo)