I've made four good, solid, emotional-support-and-fun friends in the past three years since moving to the SF Bay Area, who have then moved away. Two in the past week.
I'm feeling tired of putting in all that work and then being left without any local friend support. Kind of hopeless.
I don't think there's anything I can do differently?
But maybe I could be better about staying connected to long-distance friends.
@oneiro thanks <3
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