"Hey Emily how do I introduce myself to submissives?"
Obligatory joke of haha you don't have to do any work for that you're a rare resource. Anyways, actual advice! Be yourself! Don't be the dominant, be you! Absolutely do not treat anyone you're first interacting with as if they're a sub, treat them like a person, because they are. DON'T. BE. A. DICK. They don't know you, they don't want to kneel at your feet trust me. Avoid the ones that do for the most part. It's true that dommes do tend to be harder to find and thus pathetic people will throw themselves at you, don't settle! Like em? Hurt em!
kink advice shit part 2 Afficher plus
@ohtorifightclub Yet it's kind of hard. Is it bad to be craving for someone to dominate me and to submit to that someone at the same time ? Like, it might be because I also am a bit nymphomaniac, but... it's weird. BDSM is hard. Because if you seek for a long term relationship and find it, it's ok. If you seek for a partner for regular "play sessions" it's already harder. And the need pushes, at least me, to submit a lot more by myself. Because it feels good. But as you say, there are also many people that don't care about who the submissive is, which can lead to many troubles. The opposite must exist too though... I guess.