@sydneyfalk @nire Aslan Leather makes one that seems pretty good quality. Partner and i have it in inventory but haven't had the chance to test drive it: http://www.aslanleather.com/buckling_thigh_harness

(the O-ring is interchangeable, too)

@mxsparks @sydneyfalk i will keep it in mind though i'd rather it not be leather so its easier to wash, but yeah.

tl;dr its the only thing my body can support repetitive motions for anymore

@sydneyfalk @mxsparks and im wondering how much of my asexuality is from my body just not being able to do anything for years

@nire @mxsparks @sydneyfalk aslan makes washable vegan leather versions of most or all of their harnesses, even if it is not listed on their site they have the ability to if you ask

@rosa @nire @mxsparks

very good to know

my wife is Quite Against Leather

(I'm less polarizedly so, but I avoid it if I possibly can, and so far I have avoided it almost in all cases)