I still feel that tug from internalised transphobia telling me that rushing changes is wrong and I shouldn't advise people to do what I did.

@geekylou *whispers* do it do it do it

but seriously, its you.

do you.

@geekylou i still think HRT should be used as the frontline diagnostic after someone comes in questioning, so

@nire me too I want totally sure I was doing the right thing after HRT. I think maybe I should of waited longer before lower surgery, but it turned out really well anyway.

@geekylou yeah

@geekylou the best is that bc of cancer patients we *know* HRT causes intense dysphoria in those its wrong for