was up until after 5am last night taking care of my wife. she ran an amazing new years party, did a musical set, did a comedy set, and MCd and coordinated everyone else performing. (she's so rad and i love her so much)

this boy she likes was telling her how cool she was all night and making out with her a ton and really making her feel great. and then he ditched her and went home with a friend of ours because he fetishizes Asian women.

she was so heartbroken and i'm so fucking mad at this guy. he'd claimed before to her that he was mostly ace, but it turns out he's just gross and racist. why are cis het men always just the fucking worst? 😠