#polyamory as viewed by monogamous people is like Perl. completely incomprehensible and arcane, shouldn't work but somehow does, best to just leave it alone.
@nergdron Oh wow this is so dead-on.
@cute_weeds yeah. like, it's been so good for me, fits who i am perfectly. but it'll definitely help relationships with problems end faster, since suddenly there's choices and options and alternatives that bring problems into sharp focus. requires so much more work to keep going. i always tell people to get a good relationship counsellor before trying poly, that'll serve them really well. π