#polyamory as viewed by monogamous people is like Perl. completely incomprehensible and arcane, shouldn't work but somehow does, best to just leave it alone.
@nergdron (Said as one half a couple who've both felt like polyamory might solve some problems but been afraid of all that stuff you said. Yup, totally accurate.)
@cute_weeds yeah. like, it's been so good for me, fits who i am perfectly. but it'll definitely help relationships with problems end faster, since suddenly there's choices and options and alternatives that bring problems into sharp focus. requires so much more work to keep going. i always tell people to get a good relationship counsellor before trying poly, that'll serve them really well. 😉
@nergdron I like that!! LOL
@nergdron For poly people, it's also like Perl -- if I write the script, I can understand it, but I might look at yours and be totally lost on how it runs 😅
@nergdron Oh wow this is so dead-on.