@polymerwitch yeah like this is the real struggle. I love my girls. and I have a hard time saying no when wonderful ladies ask me out. but I definitely feel like I have too much going on and can't give people the attention they deserve.

this has been somewhat simplified by the fact that two of them are also dating each other, so we can do threesome dates.

but still. i feel like i have let things get out of hand, because i want to kiss all the girls and i have never been in a position where turning people down was even a consideration before.