kendall @morae@witches.town

now I am become bed, the snuggler of girls

@lifning @devurandom @jk why it's this can-do attitude that makes you a great candidate for our middle-management positions

@lifning @devurandom @jk damn that's a labor-intensive punchline

I never thought I'd say this but...
hire liffy

@amphetamine @nergdron @punsandpotions awwwwwww

melt it pleasseee

it's cold

@Skirmisher my profile asks people to send me a DM when they follow-request, if I don't already follow them or know them

it's surprising how many people...don't do that. honestly if they haven't bothered to read my profile and follow a simple instruction i probably don't want them seeing my locked posts.

@iliana @HTHR @bea I wonder if it could be implemented behind the scenes as a delete/republish to federate with other instances

somehow you'd have to preserve the thread though

@HTHR @bea maybe this is something that can be in the spoon

i mean fork

i mean

@nergdron @dartigen me toooo this is rad

not the first time i've had this experience but probably the first time it's been sharable

so cool!!

@HTHR if you are new to uh smog uh just go listen to all of wild love right now but be very fuckin' careful with it

@HTHR theyre good voidscreams brent

@HTHR https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b21Iz-NfhiQ

@Maenad yeah pronouns obviously have a huge effect. honestly this experience has made me realize *how little* pronouns get used in common speech when the person in question is present. whenever I hear "she" i get this little burst of euphoria, and whenever I hear "he" i feel like shit. but neither are particularly common.

honestly i just hope that people are gendering me correctly when i'm not around, but there's nothing i can do about that.

@Maenad I was chatting with a friend about this last week and we made a distinction between

things like "man, I really hate this salad" or "DUDE where's my car"

and things like "hi man what can I get you" or "dude, your hair is nice!"

idk I guess the former two are more exclamations or interjections, and the latter two are directed at the person being spoken to?

anyway i'm ~totally cool~ with case one but case two seems to bother me. I don't know. if I see enough people do it in a non-gendered context I will probably get over it.

@HTHR 🐮 ~amoooooooo~

@Maenad oh my god I'm tearing up a little bit that sounds so lovely and amazing

sleep well ~~

@er1n @amphetamine

me: cfar is a cult
colleague: im in cfar
me: *sweats* uh, present company excluded????

@Maenad thanks for being you and being here!

@Maenad wow, congratulations! WHAT A DAY