@lizardsquid it is. and i really didn't need it on Christmas and while already being in a bar place recently.
*accepts hugs gladly and snugs you*

@mimtschan our parents are largely where our self doubt comes from in the first place. I mean we're not born with it. They're fucked up, too, so sympathy by all means. But family is the patriarchy's means of reproducing its power and just fuck that.

@gracie oh. I've actually never considered that my self doubts cone from what my parents have literally told me.

thank you. i think that kind of helps. because then the self doubt can be what my mom made up and the voice of reason is my own that has questioned those things and knows better.

@mimtschan exactly! The doubts are a sort of reflex, whereas you've actually thought these things out to arrive at a better place

@mimtschan [sending hugs if wanted] 💙💙💙

@iliana yesyes very wanted, thank you 💜💜

@naga yes it doooesss thank you 💜