@kathinka aaaaannnnd plus it sucks hard to get yelled at constantly because your brain literally won't work a certain way and you need to make yourself plan everything and more fake it than make it and nobody acts understanding about that, but as if you're lazy and a failure. and then you're supposed to tolerate it with people who CAN help it.

(which i know is basically exactly what you said but i had to repeat it bc i feel this on a deeper level tbh)