hello y'all @punsandpotions @nergdron and i came up with amazing alternative terms
matti doesn't like "primary" and "secondary" so we're calling it president gf and vice gf ๐๐
an alternative for "metamour" is "gf once removed" which can be extended to "gf twice removed" to mean your gf's gf's gf ๐๐๐ or however many degrees u need
can we pls make these a thing? ๐