if you're the kind of person who prides yourself on having a bunch of opinions people disagree with: we are not going to be friends
i think it's important to examine your beliefs, especially ones that are imposed on you culturally, but i don't think it's wise to always go against the grain just because it feels like a hard truth
and it's not that people disagree with them, it's that the fact that they're contrarian is why you hold them and why you're proud to hold them. that's stupid.