@ikea_femme I have these sort of feels all the time. About people who went to better schools, who transitioned earlier, who have "productive" hobbies, who are better at tech, you name it.

But I'm friends with some of those people anyway, and I know they have lots of insecurities, too. Often of the same kind, and sometimes (and very weirdly to me) even about something (always inconsequential-seeming) that I'm okay it?

I don't know if that helps; it doesn't always help me. But, um, it's a thing, I guess?