there is a cis woman I met on a train home from Los Angeles once; we met after she intervened when another passenger on the train was being vaguely creepy to me, and we talked for hours about a number of things including politics and feminism. she was really sweet to me at the time. we added each other on facebook and have liked each others posts but not talked much more.

tonight one of her facebook friends made a public post linking a gross transmisogynistic article on the blaze about a trans student athlete, and facebook showed me that she posted a gross transmisogynistic comment on it. I feel betrayed and at a loss for what to say to her :(