@UberActivist I also have a really hard time figuring out what to do with my hair!

my strategy atm is to do image searches for "short haircut" (insert the length of hair you want) and scroll through until I find something I like. hairdressers also make me super anxious, so I go to a hair cutting school instead of somewhere fancy, bc it's a) cheaper, and b) the people cutting my hair are also kind of anxious, so I feel less weird about it. I show them the picture and am like "something like that"

my understanding of fancy hair cutting places is you can ask them about what sort of haircut would look good on you , but I've never done that.

hope that helps!