@lambdagrrl well, i don't know your situation precisely, but if someone makes you feel uncomfortable, i would try to reduce communication with them until a way to fix this is discovered.
i don't think you're being a terrible person by doing this, though.
@devurandom maybe, but right now the anxiety of this is preventing me from doing the things i ought to be doing, which doesn't help the feelings of uselessness and awfulness
anxiety, misery Afficher plus
@lambdagrrl you seem pretty good to me. it's not like you've committed something terrible, right?