@lambdagrrl
I'm soooo familiar with that headspace. :-/
A lot of appearance-oriented anxiety went away when HRT started to kick in, and a little more went away after SRS -- or at least morphed from something like "trapped in male body, please ignore me" to something more like "am I passing even slightly yet? why do people still keep calling me "sir"? what do I have do DO???"... where the latter is at least compatible with wearing shirts that overtly announce trans-ness.
t-shirt idea Afficher plus
@lambdagrrl Sounds complicated.
I always used to wear only dark blue shirts, because anything else seemed like it stood out too much.