Hello it's getting chilly at night now finally so it is time for my # 1 favorite sex toy tip again:
If you use any insertable (maybe even any penetrable) toys at all, I highly suggest getting a small electric blanket and wrapping them in it to warm them up before use. It'll keep you from tensing up and will make everything easier and way more comfortable and also feel good (in my experience).
Also warm up lube a bit
#nsfw