@cattsmall I remember a really unpleasant 2012 furcon experience where my GF and I were sharing a room with this couple who turned out to be...uh, rather different in manner in person than online. one aspect that I remember bugging me was that they never introduced Daria and myself to people they already knew. One of those things you can't *insist* upon, but bruising to one's self-confidence to be left completely out of a string of casual meetings