All of these things cascades through my mind that night of 15 May 2017, when I was playing #Undertale and had to stagger to my bed overwhelmed with emotion, and as the flood of memories and associations washed over me I found myself saying aloud, as if the words were coming out of their own accord:
"I am a woman."
I announced this the next evening to my polycule and my friends, naming myself in honor of the fictional person who supplied me with their voice for a time, until I found my own.
And that's why I'm called "Kara Dreamer".
Well...that was a long story. Hope it wasn't too dull.