kinda realizing that all the reasons that I tell people I prefer short hair have absolutely nothing to do with looks
I've been conditioning myself for decades to regard _convenience_ as the chief reason to dress, do up my hair, &c. in a certain way but that's kinda rubbish, that's just because I convinced myself I wasn't worth effort
@kara_dreamer it's a thin line, but i say if you have an appetite to switch it up, it's worth the effort :)
@GlitchThief @kara_dreamer My long hair is a mess of tangles more often than not and I'm not the best at caring for it, but I still prefer it to short hair!
@Ulfra_Wolfe @kara_dreamer i've always worn my hair uh... well, long for a boy, but I wouldn't call it long. I don't really know how to grow hair out though. like, if i just leave it be it'll be a tangled mess all over my face... i know it requires at least a bit more effort than that haha
i have really curly hair and i've love to wear it in a more feminine style
@GlitchThief @Ulfra_Wolfe exactly the problem I am having. My GF tells me that if I'm to get even a short-haired but feminine style I need to grow our my hair a bit more, but in the meantime it's an unruly, bothersome mop that I never learned how to deal with