trans surgery musings, sex Afficher plus
@ikea_femme been reflecting on this myself, since my GF underwent bottom surgery. It was a goal of hers from the start, but I'm more ambivalent. I feel that I'd be happy enough without it? not sure
@ikea_femme Ugh :( Yes, regular dilation is a necessity, but my GF's vagina sure looks and feels and responds like the "real" thing. What an asinine and insulting thing to be a snob about...
I'll be honest about my own feelings: as much enjoyment as I can tell Daria gets from her vagina...I can maybe take it or leave it? I sort of like having a penis even now (and even though it's not all THAT reliable)
Getting gross about my ex, sex Afficher plus
Getting gross about my ex, sex Afficher plus
@kara_dreamer My ex fiancee was so vanilla, I honestly can't tell how I feel about my genitals during sex. She'd want sex every couple months and otherwise, in our six year relationship, we masturbated individually. When I'd talk about wanting sex more or maybe scheduling it like some folks do, she'd get mad and say I shouldn't expect our relationship to be about sex, and that enthusiastic consent means we both have to really want it. She was a hypochondriac and thought sex could lead to one of us getting hurt. So I'm sort of a virgin on some level :-/