"can we all pls collectively agree to make tying ur jacket around ur waist fashionably acceptable again"
it's not? why?
why the fuck would I wanna carry a jacket in my arm instead of tying it around my waist, if I get too hot?
???
@Hiraelle it's kinda true, though, that I don't see people doing this that much? I do, from time to time, but it seems like back when I was growing up in the '80s it was a lot more common
@Hiraelle not me either :( that was the one useful thing about disappearing into the "nondescript male nerd" self-image that was all I had for decades: I didn't have to care any more about how I looked, so I just ignored fashion. Now though I want to start looking better and all those worries about fashion are back.