Okay so TERFs love to get all touchy about being ""forced"" to have sex with trans women but like

that's not the actual issue?

The issue is that cis people can't grasp that "gay man" isn't synonymous with having a penis or being exclusively attracted to penises, and "lesbian" isn't synonymous with having a vagina or being exclusively attracted to vaginas.

So if you only date people with vaginas, sorry TERFs, *that doesn't inherently make you a lesbian.* Sexuality =/= genital preference.